Wondering if he likes you can be nerve wrecking and
frustrating as you don’t want to make the mistake of thinking he does when he
really doesn’t. The good news is that it can be hard to hide these feelings
when a man is around a woman he likes. There are always signs to look for, you
just have to know what they are. Where men can be crafty in hiding most of the
signs that he likes you, here are the very subtle ones that may have slipped
his attention.
His focus is on you
more than other people when talking in a group
When many guys are interested in a woman, they will
unconsciously give her more focus when talking in a group of people. This is
because they are infatuated with her, and love staring at her. Pay attention to
see how much time he spends giving eye contact to certain individuals.
He looks at your
reaction to a joke or story
At the end of his story or punch line in a joke, men will
usually want to see her reaction and her smile if they like her. So as a
result, when the end of a joke is coming, he will shift his focus on her in a
group of people just to see her smile.
Eye contact,
avoids, or too much
It’s obvious that too much eye contact can mean that he is
interested in you, but also not giving enough eye contact can mean he likes
her. Especially with guys who aren’t as experienced with the ladies, they will
over compensate by not giving her any eye contact because they are shy or they are
trying too hard.
All men can be different, any specific signs as to what to
watch for can be tricky because of this. However, what’s common in men is that
they will feel the pressure and act differently somehow when around a woman
they like. Watching to see the differences in his behavior when he’s around the
woman he likes, and around other people is key in spotting if he likes her.
He remembers the
little details
People will give more attention and focus to those they are
interested in, this is a test as old as time. Perhaps he remembers her name
above others, or little details about her weekend more so than other people he
talks to. What can be useful is to lay traps for him to take up, by mentioning
little details in your conversations together and see if he remembers them in
the future.
Watch his friends,
if and how they look at you when you’re with him
Sometimes the giveaway sign doesn’t come from him, but from
his friends. If he has told his friends or if they know that he likes you, they
can then begin to show signs. Especially if they think you’re not paying
attention to them. Watch and see if; they all watch you, snicker, smile, or
stare, when it’s just the two of you together. Another sign is if they all
purposely give him space and time alone with just you. Be sure to catch him or
his friends staring by suddenly looking at them from out of nowhere.
Getting the view of
others
A useful tip if you are wondering if he’s interested in you
is to get the viewpoint of others. Where it’s sometimes easier to spot things
from an outside point of view, the people around you can sometimes see what
you’ve been missing. This is because they may know him better, and behavioral
differences that are subtle to you are obvious to them.
Along with which, they will see how he acts when you’re not
around as well as you being around him.
You don’t get to see the difference between how he acts around you and
how he acts around other people he’s not interested in.
His excuses don’t
make sense
Often times he will come up with excuses for being around
you, or walking past you just to get a look at you. It can be that he gives
excuses for the way he dresses around you, or the reasons he comes by to talk to
you. Lying can be a hard game to pull off. Watch for holes in his alibi and
excuses that don’t make sense or are just lame. This can be a sure sign that
he’s just lying to get near you.
He
mirrors you
People can sometimes mirror someone they are intently listening to
without knowing it. This is because their focus in on them and isn’t on their
surroundings. Had they been less interested they would act more natural and be
less focused on who they’re listening to.
Awkward
hands
Let’s face it; being around someone you like can make you nervous and
self-conscious, to the point where you start acting unnatural. As a result of
being self-conscious he may begin to show it in the awkward way he stands, or
not knowing what to do with his hands. Look for signs of him being
self-conscious when he’s around you.
Watch out for these subtle signs that he likes you as many men don’t know
about them or don’t have the skills in hiding them. By keeping an eye for them
you can have the advantage, and be ready for when he does make a move on you.
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